What is Life? What does this life comprehend to...? The various stages of life from birth to death could be portrayed into four stages of life:
So right from our birth, in fact from pre-birth, the run for our survival starts .....
1. Stage One: Birth, Infant, Adolescence- We are born into this universe as a baby, helpless where we are dependent on adults to fulfill our daily needs. Later we develop the skill to self help first by watching others and trying to get into the society by observing like a baby in a mothers arm slowly moves on to crawl, sit, stand, walk and talk.... These are considered to be a huge milestone in an infant's life, this is achieved by a baby only after several observations, trying to mimic adults, look around the things the people and the way the society is put up. Getting introduced to cultures, the child is overall in an absorption phase of life. Adults are in the process of making the child to learn to be independent and self-sufficient to take care of his or her needs and decision making. The child is in constant notice, where he has to wait for approval, validation and appreciation. On the continuous search for these the child actually forgets to become independent and slowly losing the personal values to progress as self reliant, where as he becomes dependent constantly for each move.
We must be aware of the standards and expectations around us but this should not let us step back from what we need to do ourselves to become self reliant.
2.Stage Two: In stage one we are open to learning many different things helping us to fit in our society and cultures. The next stage enters into self- discovery, we our in a phase of trial and error trying out new things, learning from our mistakes. We might be stuck to certain limitations in life, but we should know to take the good out of our limitations learning to share our happiness and success and as having a positive mind set to accept our failures, at this stage of mid end adolescence we our open to many things which may flicker the mind to purge into negativity. This is an inevitable time period in life choosing the right things will help us grow further and carefully pick our dreams to focus on what is further needed to flourish. To discover the right opportunity is the most important thing which will help to ourselves to choose the best.
3.Stage Three: Commitment- This is the most important part of ones life. At this point of time either some feel comfortable living inside their limitations, and some are living within limitations which are not letting them be themselves. A few other are people moving out of their boundaries knowing what is needed to follow their dreams. Here lies again a very thin line between choosing the good and some unknowingly draining themselves into work or activities leading them nowhere. It is a time of possessing high potential energy where the brain is working on with lot of stuff visualizing, analyzing,rather the criss cross binding of energy, learning the importance of relationships of life, family and priorities. At this point of time life would have thought many lessons, its when we realize there much more peace found in ordinary things and finding joy in little things. Learning to self satisfy but the constant power of desires in man never ends. But we keep working on calming ourselves to live a life influencing our near and dear ones. Life comes to a point where mind and body weakens and we counteract to move on the responsibilities to the next generations. the feeling where there is nothing much to accomplish in life or some end up with a feeling of tired and becoming old of all that we have come across. the continuous counteracts of education-> degrees->job->achievement -> increments->marriage->family->children->again the same cycle-> their education,good job,achievements, marriage, parents retirement->old age-> death. this has been the natural power and ability of man's journey.
Stage Four:Legacy,The Value of Life, The Trauma of Journey:
We have now arrived to the last stage of life, where we have come across our each stage of life, school, college, job, earnings, marriage, children, family and all these have got us to a meaningful life that we have lived and also pass on the values that we were thought to our off springs. AT this point of time we are checking over things again and again that we have not left out on what we wanted to pursue and trying our level best to purposefully create a supporting environment and circumstance to actively maintain and pass on our values of life. And one day we slip away to our own death, leaving this world behind and our families. As mortality is unbearable, but man is ever- growing in this world he is able to face and accept the loss and willingly move on the journey carrying the values of life and nurturing them and passing them on. LIFE MOVES ON.....
What Is Life All About? What's the point on all the stages that man has faced? If Death is the ultimate answer to Life....?
In each stage of life we go through many things, we learn we become reliant on ourselves and progressively work for happiness and well being in life. Even though man is aware that death is the last stage and every life on earth has to face it, though the horrible strategy here is death is unpredictable it can take place to man at any point or at any stage in life. Man satisfies himself on things that he cannot control and find answers to would be answered or taken care of a super natural power above all, again this may not be accepted by all. Every stage of life will differ from person to person as it has its own boundaries and social approvals based on people and their surroundings. But still we stand up and choose to live a life progressively on what we choose for.
The Truth is the transition between various stages of life which may be triggered by trauma sometimes to some people to move into negativity in one's life. Trying to better one's self should not push them into extreme flawed situations. It is always best to think, analize, and reflect back on each progressions taken place in life as sometimes may lead to failures , reflecting back on one's move and abilities will help us on achieving our strategies . Ultimately everyone is working for comforting themselves in happiness.
we our bonded with emotions and feelings, though some may not show it but everyone is.
We may get stuck or cling onto things in life, insecurities feelings of not letting us move further. But life a balance of every situations and circumstances facing it, learning and growing from them with a positive mind would help one to accomplish to move further, as the journey of life never ends. THE LIFE CYCLE CONTINUES.
Enjoy each stage of life, as time cannot be taken back only memories will be left with us, make each a day a better day than the previous day creating happiness and memories!!
Even after a cloudy day, there is a sunny day awaiting!!:)
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